for co-parents

Two homes. One family. A calmer way forward.

Co-parenting after a separation is hard, and harder still when every text feels like a negotiation or there’s a court case involved. I help parents communicate, solve problems and keep kids out of the middle, through secure telehealth anywhere in California.

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Sound familiar?

  • Simple texts about pickup times turn into arguments
  • Handoffs are tense, and the kids can feel it
  • Your kids are hearing more about the conflict than they should
  • The court order looks clear on paper but is hard to follow day to day
  • You feel like you’re the only one trying

You’re not failing. Co-parenting is a skill, and skills can be learned.

how I can help

Co-parenting services

Co-parenting therapy

Structured sessions focused on communication, problem-solving and making your parenting plan work in real life, whether the court ordered it or you’re choosing it on your own.

Parenting coordination

For high-conflict co-parents who need help resolving day-to-day disputes and following their parenting plan. The parenting coordinator’s role is set by a court order or a written agreement between the parents.

New Ways for Families skills

I’m trained in New Ways for Families, which teaches three practical skills for high-conflict situations: flexible thinking, managed emotions and moderate behaviors.

How I stay neutral

Both parents will read this page. Here’s what each of you can count on.

Your kids come firstI’m not on either parent’s side. My focus is helping both of you raise your kids with less conflict.
Same information, same expectationsBoth parents get the same rules, the same information and the same respect.
Clear roles, in writingBefore we begin, I explain in writing what my role is, what it isn’t, and what will and won’t be shared.
No custody recommendationsI don’t conduct custody evaluations or make custody recommendations.
step by step

What to expect

  1. 1. Reach outBook a free 15-minute consultation. Either parent can make the first call.
  2. 2. Separate intakesEach parent completes their own paperwork. If there’s a court case, I’ll ask for a copy of the current order and any needed releases.
  3. 3. Set the ground rulesEarly sessions focus on understanding each parent’s concerns and goals, and agreeing on how we’ll work together.
  4. 4. Build skills that stickWe practice communicating, problem-solving and handling disagreements, so things get easier between sessions too.

Questions co-parents ask

Does my co-parent have to participate?

Co-parenting work is most effective when both parents take part. If only one of you is ready right now, reach out anyway and we can talk about your options.

Are sessions together or separate?

It depends on your family, your goals and any court order. Many families use a mix of joint and individual sessions.

What gets shared with the court or attorneys?

That depends on the court order and the releases each parent signs. I’ll explain exactly what is and isn’t shared before we begin.

How are fees handled?

Court-involved services and parenting coordination are typically private pay. Fees vary by service, and how costs are split between parents is often set by the court order or agreed on in writing.

Is everything by telehealth?

Yes. Secure video sessions make it easier for parents in different homes, cities or counties to take part, and for each parent to join from their own space.

What if there’s a history of domestic violence or a restraining order?

Please tell me during the free consultation. Joint co-parenting work isn’t safe or appropriate for every family, and we’ll talk about what will actually help.

no perfect words required

Ready for less conflict?

Book a free 15-minute consultation. Either parent can reach out first, and we’ll talk about what your family needs.

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